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Monday, October 13, 2014

Communication Basics: My Most Famous Mentor

My Most Famous Mentor

It is hard to choose any one person from those who have mentored me, but my most famous mentor is former UCLA Bruins Head Coach, John Wooden.  I think he chose to mentor me because of my “famous” landlords in the LA area, Rod and Marge Rood.

Rod had been a personal friend of former President Dwight D. Eisenhower.   Rod signed the papers in France for the 1984 Olympics to come to LA.   Marge is personal friends with people like Vin Scully.  These two UCLA alumni were incredibly generous people.  So I want everyone to understand they gave me unimaginable open doors.  It was like that magical closet in that movie.  I hope I have been grateful enough for all that they gave me. 

Coach Wooden was a very generous man himself.    He answered me two major questions as a coach.  The first was this: “What are the fundamentals of basketball?”  The second was this: “Should I be coaching or should I be doing something else with my career?”  I know personally why his former players all look up to him. 

His answer to the first question was his “Pyramid of Success”.  It consists of 15 building blocks of success.  I have been privileged now to take those 15 blocks and then add his favorite four letter word – love – to create an action packed diamond from it.  The diamond pictures better the advantage of the traction of action that should increase everyone’s mental health.  

His answer to my second question was his life story of coming from Indiana.  He wanted to pursue baseball, but coming out of Indiana he naturally became a basketball coach.  I guess that is why coming from Wisconsin and the land of Vince Lombardi, I naturally chose football over all the rest. 

 I hope you will take time to benefit especially from Coach Wooden's "Pyramid of Success".  I'll wait and see if my "Diamond of Action Success" will advance his brilliance to yet another level.

Take care.


Sincerely,

Jon







Communication Basics: My Manuscript for My Book has Been Submitted

I have not been writing as frequently on this blog or my other major blog due to my needing to complete a book manuscript for publication.  It will hopefully be out by the end of the year.

The book's title is: Mental Health for Everybody: A Field Guide.  I don't think I have to argue for its relevance.  I might have to argue for its content.

It is a book that will bring basic scientific studies (including psychology) down to the average person's level (but not by bypassing, but by using high level expertise).  I can't wait to hold the first copy in my hands.

It will define the meanings of words like teaching, coaching, schooling, and educating in ways that will foster people's basic mental health.  Remember, it is a field guide.

I did my best to follow the rule of K.I.S.S.  It means "Keep it Simple Silly".  Take care.  I will give updates as good new arrives on my book.


Sincerely,


Jon